This fall has marked a lot of transitions around our house. The newness of Kindergarten wore off super fast the beginning of September with Jackson and a LOT of crying & resisting began. As a result of watching that every morning at drop off, Eli began to do the same with leaving me for preschool (& for a few days even to be left at Mema's!) He started screaming when going to Bible class too which has always been hard on him, but had gotten much better over the last year. Thankfully with patience, bribery (aka rewards), and Aunt Becca (to help with Eli as well as my sanity!) we have come out on the other end! Needless to say, September was the longest month ever. I have been on an emotional roller coaster to say the least. And i am exhauted. Plum exhausted.
I started walking Jackson into his classroom the first couple of days of school, but the school wants the kids to be independent & get out in the carpool line starting on week 2. I knew day one that the carpool line wasn't going to happen that fast, because Jackson is just slow to warm to new situations. So i gently pulled back & kept trying to back up where i would leave him in the school hall each day. I think this panicked him because the more i tried to do this, the more upset he got each day until one day it hit the fan & the teacher ended up having to block the door to keep him from running out of the classroom he was screaming & crying so hard. I thought someone was ripping my heart right out of my chest! So that was third week of school- on a Tuesday. That afternoon, i told Jackson that if he could go to school with NO CRYING for the rest of the week, then i would take him Friday after school to get ice cream. ( i didn't even mention the carpool line that week! ;) So, the next morning, he did cry, but no more after that. On Friday, we hit ColdStone for ice cream & it was a hit. On Monday, on the way to school, i mentioned ice cream again if we could hit the carpool line by the end of the (short) week. It was a NO-GO. He wasn't having it, so i let the subject drop until after school. I asked him if there was something he wanted that he didn't have right now & he mentioned a baseball bat. (Cha-Ching!) So i said he could have one if he did carpool by the end of the week. I won't even go into the rain that pursued (meaning, we all got drenched walking into the school- unlike carpoolers!) the next couple of days, but the last day of that week.... he did it (reluctantly). But he did it!!! And when he got home that afternoon.... this beautiful PINK bat was awaiting him!

I know, I know. It's pink. But the bat, in and of itself, exudes masculinity & the boy loves pink. I am sure he will out grow it & until then, i don't care- HE GOT OUT OF THE CAR!! It only took 4 whole weeks of emotional mornings for him, me AND eli!!

Speaking of Eli.... He cried, kicked & screamed every day that Jackson did during this transition. But the amazing thing is this.... As soon as Jackson started saying, "I'm not going to cry this morning, Mama." Then Eli would start saying it before preschool too. ("I not cry dis time, mama") It took an extra week for Eli to follow through with that statement, but he is doing MUCH better at preschool drop off & at church thanks to Aunt Becca walking him in & keeping him company for a little while until he can get it together there too! It's the separating that is hard for him, but once he gets settled, he does great. He just has to make sure he says, "I love you a lot, a lot alot." to me before he goes. He really is a sweetheart!